Ask the Right Questions First

You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile.

You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact.
What now? How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don’t have any potential at all?

You need to find out something about who this strange woman/man really is and not just who they want you to believe they are.
It would be nice if women/men wore labels like Gold Digger, Daddy’s girl, or mammy's boy.

but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things out and you can’t just ask direct questions.

You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady/man if you decide you want to do that.

After you are past the initial small talk, ask, "What are the biggest mistakes you have made when dating online".

Listen carefully to there answers, see if they are going to tell you a lot about them selfs and there views on the opposite sex in general.

Next you should ask them, "What do you really think about online dating" Now they will tell you if they have had any bad experiences dating on line and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.

Now for the all-important one….."What caused the break up in your last relationship" If they put all the blame on the other person, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If they take all the blame them self, you should probably do the same,

If the the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the person for the first time.

Allison Ward

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